It's a common occurrence in a place like this. According to psychology today this is due to poor staffing conditions, unhappy people in general, home and in the work place,
Human nature to tear some down rather than notice the good . Rumors and assumptions add fuel to the fire. And insecure unhappy or plain bitches are the wind that makes the fire hot and spread.
everyone is a victim of this u think people don't talk shit about u and sprinkle some half truths and a dash of you know what? Or look at this,and u got ur self a ugly un true juicey comment about someone to make the person(s) talking feel better about there own short comings. Sad but true! I have done it and have had it done. Outcomes are: u put people's jobs at risk.
Friendships strained or broken.
Don't help ur self esteem just makes one less person there for u when u need someone. Cuz it will get back around worse than how u first said it! Does it feel good to spread a rumor where they get introuble and it not as bad as u made it because it was something u heard that someone else heard that they heard. And it wasn't the case at all. Then the person u tell it to assumes u saw it first hand and acts on it!! Very sad destructive behavior.. But they make medicine for it !! And we all need it from time to time, a big glass of shut the fuck up and do ur job and if u are doing ur job correctly u don't have time to know what someone did or said what she heard. And if u feel the need to still open that mouth, converse with our residents. Not gossip. I'm sure they don't want to hear someone don't give showers!!! Or when u hear people bad talking. Encourage them to take there medicine and get back to work. Or say something nice... Nawww that ain't no fun .
Some quotes to remember
The biggest liar in the world is They Say. ~Douglas Malloch
Do not repeat anything you will not sign your name to. ~Author Unknown
What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. ~Jewish Proverb
The Womans idea of hell is a place where everybody has to mind her own business. ~Wendy Phillips,
Ouch that one hurts a little bit!!
Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you. ~Spanish
